Anonymous asked: im fat and im in high school and ive never had a boyfriend...but i dont know what kind of guy to go for...i like black guys...but there are none where i live.
You and this chick should maybe do a housing swap, huh?
In high school, it’s not entirely terrible for you to not have a boyfriend. High school guys are rarely a prize and that goes triple for high school FAs. Since you don’t even know what “kind” of guy to go for, maybe just focus on making friends, joining clubs, trying out lots of activities that interest you and seeing if any close male companions come of that?
If you’re still determined to get yourself a black boyfriend, make an account on Blackplanet or try to meet boys of color on Tumblr or other social networks, be very careful about who trust (especially assuming you’re underage) but make some casual, long-term penpals who share your other (re: nonsexual) interests and maybe that’ll help you and some friends decide where to roadtrip next summer? Or what colleges to look at down the road?