Anonymous asked: I would definitely consider myself overweight, but I'm not HUGE or anything. I am 200 lbs, 5'9 but I am not even average so I'm bigger...whatever. Anyway, I am a virgin still at 20, and I can't get over the fact that I genuinely feel bad for anyone who has to touch me. I know you and other guys truly don't care, but I can't bring myself to allow anyone besides my mirror to see me naked. What should I do, because I don't want to be a virgin forever? ):
For the record, you don’t have to get naked to have sex. I wouldn’t normally recommend this, but maybe if you were getting intimate with someone you really liked, in a dress or something, and fucked with your panties down by your request, maybe you’d get relaxed and euphoric enough in the situation to feel comfortable taking the rest off, or next time?
5’9 and 200 lbs. is not even the slightest bit uncommon a size, and being a virgin at 20 gives you a lot of company. I’d seek therapy to talk about your body image and fears, especially if you’ve had chances at romantic encounters and you’ve turned them down because your phobias are so intense.