Anonymous asked: I'm a big girl, and very comfortable with that fact. The only time that I'm not comfortable is at some stages during sex, because there are just some things we can't do because of my size. We've worked out what we can do, and it's great. But I wouldn't mind changing things up a bit, so my question is, are there any positions you would recommend for a bigger girl and a smaller guy?
Since I’m a smaller guy and I’ve been with much bigger girls, and I’m genuinely surprised at the few instances of trouble they’ve had (on top, reverse cowgirl even, doggy’s usually my fault if it’s a second wind and my dick is droopy), I guess I’d have to ask more specifically what’s giving you trouble? Are you suuuuuure you can’t do it because of your size? It might be because of your flexibility, which can be worked on if you were to pursue that, but I’m mostly just asking if you were too embarrassed or frustrated to do all the necessary lifting and untucking and carefully slipping in?
This stuff takes patience sometimes, folks. You’d be surprised how much more you can do than you think, if you take the few extra minutes of trial-and-error to work it out. It might take a few tries during different sessions, but it’s ultimately worthwhile to add to the number of positions you can do. I’ve heard good things about propping the girl up with pillows but I haven’t done that too much myself except for getting on top or eating her out. Maybe because I’m short, dunno.
But I highly recommend spooning sex, because I love sex in the morning and I’m also particularly lazy in the morning. Don’t spoon exactly. Lay on your side and bend your ass toward the dude until you’re shaped like a (rather round) V. Then have him lay on his side as well, line it up and go in. Then bang lying down with neither of you doing much work. Ahh, that’s nice.