thefantasticgigi asked: Ok so I'm brand new to dating of any kind. I'm a fat girl and have never really been interested in the idea. I was much more interested in my geeky activities (Buffy! Harry Potter! Terry Pratchett! The Internet! Dr Who!), to really care about wanting someone else. Now I want to try dating. My question is how the hell do I get started? I'm bisexual so I was thrilled to see you have posts for both men and women, I just... don't know what to do? God that sounds stupid but it's true. Help?
Buffy is better than dating, I assure you. I’ve never really dated. You set the terms really. If dinner and a movie doesn’t sound good (a movie theater isn’t an ideal place to get to know someone), have him or her over to watch Buffy. In terms of meeting people, see the links on the left.