Anonymous asked: Do you have any advice for a 17 y/o trying to find someone that is truly into them? All of them? Every guy that has ever talked to me has wanted sex. I guess they think fat girls are easy because they have no self-esteem. But I'm nothing like that.
Guys at your age only want one thing. I’m super sorry to say. You should wait until college; either forgo more serious dating hopes or play around with sex in the meantime. When you’re 18 you can also date older guys, not that there’s any guarantee that they’re more mature or less obsessed with sex. Either way, only do something if you’re sure you want to, and if you’re not getting the results or options that you want right now, put boys on the backburner for a bit. No need to compromise if you’re not feeling it. And it’s fantastic that your self-esteem’s in the clear.