janeeyre54 asked: What is the difference between "confidence" and a woman coming on too strong?
I don’t think it’s possible for a woman to come on too strong in the patriarchy. Hit on him until he says no. Be smart though, I mean, if he seems turned off, tone it down. If he seems interested but merely passive, be aggressive. Everyone’s different, you really have to read their own cues. I’d say you should never back down based on your own second-guessing though. Unreadable guys are the worst; force him to let you know where you stand and don’t be afraid of rejection. Then find another dude to proactively pursue.
brittgirl717 asked: I'm on the track and field team for my university, which means I'm always surrounded by teammates with the ideal, athletic body type. At times, I become disheartened and self-conscious because I don't look like them. Last night, I found your blog, and I just wanted to say how grateful I am. I woke up this morning with renewed self confidence and the knowledge that I'm not alone, even though it feels like it sometimes. So, thanks :)
Hey, thanks for continuing to prove that athletes come in all sizes.
Anonymous asked: Oh the initial tampon question, there was no anger involved, no one saw red. We just had a talk about intimacy and decided we wanted a relationship that close. You seemed like a bit of a wise guy though so I thought I would see if someone thought to be that close to someone might be a little unhealthy.
It doesn’t seem harmful? But like I said, you clearly have some doubts about it if you feel it needs my attention.
Anonymous asked: She doesn't *need* help changing tampons, it was just an example. She enjoys the closeness and finds it loving and caring that I accept and adore everything about her to that level and that it doesn't weird me out :)
So why do you feel compelled to ask what I think? I admit, I would really like to know how the initial conversation went. “No, allow me!”
Anonymous asked: I just started reading up on you. Thanks for being so open and honest about your love for fat girls. Out of curiosity are you still with your long distance gf? Have you two closed the gap or are you single?
Anonymous asked: .. He always talks about how he felt bad about it before, that something physical could affect his feelings for someone, but now he realizes that it's just natural and human. So yes, I think it is very much akin to sexual orientation. Love your blog!
Yeah, people who don’t experience it yet demand that it’s “not the same thing” really wouldn’t know.
Anonymous asked: On the "preference" for fat girls being considered equal to sexual orientation: I totally think it is. My boyfriend has explained it to me exactly that way; no matter how hard he tries, he cannot physically be attracted to thin-average women. Cont..
Anonymous asked: So, I saw this TED talk about being in the closet, all kinds of closets, and I thought that you might like it. Ironically, this ask is anonymous because I have a kinky incest fantasy blog and didn't want to out myself to your lovely readers. Cheers. Can't post a link. goddamn. It's Ash Beckham.
Incest is wincest.