Anonymous asked: aw come on, make a personal tumblr. just reveal the url to the followers of this blog temporarily, then delete the post in an hour or two. there might be nice belly pics in it for youuuuu...
I’m really easy to stalk if you want to send me belly pics. Although I really don’t like the implication that I’m lacking in belly pics.
Anonymous asked: I wish I could find men like you where I live. But in my town thin is pretty. Doesn't matter what you look like as long and you are skinny >_> ugh one of the curses of living in the Santa Barbara/ Central coast (California) area haha. But I'm still hoping :)
Your town’s like any other: lots of people into thin partners, lots of people into fat partners, and lots of people in various stages of discovering they’re more the latter than the former, and figuring out how to go about satisfying that development in their taste in a society that pretends it doesn’t exist.
Anonymous asked: do you have a personal tumblr where we can send you sexy anon asks and maybe anonymously submit pics of our bellies to you?
I should’ve set one of these up ages ago probably before the Voice/Hairpin articles gave away my identity because now I can’t reap the goodies without compromising the integrity of the blog. That said, finding amateur fatty porn (on Tumblr no less) is probably the literal least of my worries.
Anonymous asked: are you out of questions? or are the questions you receive too repetitive? or have you just been too busy lately to answer very many?
Definitely not 1, lots of 2 and 3.
Anonymous asked: Hey, come back please!
I’ve been here for years.
Anonymous asked: Well hi I just wanted to thank you for your blog and stuff. As a fat girl it gets kinda hard to, yanno, LIVE in this society and being able to find a place that lets me know that I'm actually deserving of being loved and adored is pretty cool! So yeah, have a nice rest of the year and take care.
I hope everyone had a great holiday and was treated by family like a person who’s allowed to exist as they are!
janeeyre54 asked: What is the difference between "confidence" and a woman coming on too strong?
I don’t think it’s possible for a woman to come on too strong in the patriarchy. Hit on him until he says no. Be smart though, I mean, if he seems turned off, tone it down. If he seems interested but merely passive, be aggressive. Everyone’s different, you really have to read their own cues. I’d say you should never back down based on your own second-guessing though. Unreadable guys are the worst; force him to let you know where you stand and don’t be afraid of rejection. Then find another dude to proactively pursue.
brittgirl717 asked: I'm on the track and field team for my university, which means I'm always surrounded by teammates with the ideal, athletic body type. At times, I become disheartened and self-conscious because I don't look like them. Last night, I found your blog, and I just wanted to say how grateful I am. I woke up this morning with renewed self confidence and the knowledge that I'm not alone, even though it feels like it sometimes. So, thanks :)
Hey, thanks for continuing to prove that athletes come in all sizes.