Anonymous asked: I came out about a year ago, when i was younger i always tried to date thin girls just to impress my mates and sometimes even tried to have long term relationships with them. Without going into detail, it simply didn't work. When i first came out, there was something i realized; nobody really cared that i liked fat girls, it was just accepted and people moved on with their lives. since then i have been dating a curvy girl, the relationship has gone so smoothly and we absolutely adore each other.
embracingmyawesome asked: you are beyond Epic ... thanks for following me :)
Anonymous asked: Forget what I said about the sexual tension. I guess it was never really real. Yesterday, he made plans to chill and get drunk at his place with two of our female coworkers RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME. Never once did he look at me and say, "hey, you wanna come over too?". I guess he was turned off by the fact that alcohol isn't my thing. I can never seem to find a guy who likes fat chicks and has the same morals and beliefs that I have.
He either sounds like a horny, medium-shitty dude or he interpreted your actions as rejection and disinterest.
primaspazzerina-deactivated2013 asked: Hey! Thank you for the follow back! (although you may regret it...lol)
lol i mean it’s just tumblr
Anonymous asked: Damn what happened here while I was gone? Out of context I don't know what half of these asks are talking about. I'm sorry but could explain all this to me?
I don’t know what this ask is talking about either. Were you in a coma?
Anonymous asked: For you what is the minimum a girl has to be to turn you on?
Anonymous asked: It's the "coworker girl" again. Oh man. There is way too much sexual tension between him and I. Let's face it...we're going to end up hooking up in some way or the other. Lovely .__.
Why do you sound so unhappy? Destroy that.
unhappyhappyaccidents asked: I met up with a guy from OKC. We started talking and I really thought we were hitting it off well. We flirt/send pictures over a few weeks and the whole time he has a girlfriend. I told him I wasn't going to DO anything with him until she was out of the picture. The day comes and he breaks up with her, so he and I hook up. Next day, they're back together. No contact since. I feel so used. His friends told me he was genuinely interested in me. I don't know what to believe.
Here’s the part that interests me, and deviates from the typical girl-on-the-side story: when were you able to converse with his friends?
Anyway, the red flag for you was there at the start: what is a guy with a girlfriend doing on OKC? Why are you trusting a guy who’s sneaking around behind her back? And why did it appeal to you that this guy would dump his partner at a moment’s notice? That’s who you want to date? And either you or he looks worse depending on whether or not you knew about the girlfriend from the start. It happens to lots of people; you certainly won’t be the first or last person to actively pursue a cheater. But you can’t rely on them.
I’m not trying to insult your intelligence, just bring some things to the forefront that were either lost on you or willfully ignored. This guy is either a complete jerkoff or he’s in the midst of the Thousand Breakups he’s going to have with this girl before he can let himself really break away. If his friends said he liked you, he’s probably confused and trying to will himself to do the latter. That’s his problem, not yours.
You’ve allowed this guy to put you in a position to be hurt twice now. Look elsewhere.
Anonymous asked: a hard time believing that he could genuinely be interested in me because his ex-girlfriend is really thin. I guess my mind just automatically assumes that if he dated a thin girl, there's no way he could dig a fat chick like me afterwards. Stupid, I know. I guess that mindset is just due to lack of self-confidence. Anyhow, I work with him tomorrow night. Needless to say, I'm excited about it!
On purely crass terms, if his ex was really thin, and he’s inquiring about your huge boobs, it sounds like he was missing something.
And hopefully you and him can find an area of flirting and a (sober) date you can agree on?