September 2012
39 posts
ASK A GUY LIVE ON ICE
I’ll answer your shits live tonight for an hour or so!
August 2012
43 posts
clustr-fck asked: this blog is so wonderful. <3 thanks for creating it! (:
Anonymous asked: Do you generally think the fatter the better, or is there an upper limit where it stops being attractive to you? Outside of fantasies, I mean. Someone you would actually have a relationship/sex with.
Anonymous asked: Is there anything about having sex with a thin woman that you wish you could transfer to having sex with a fat woman? IE they're easier to manhandle, it's easier for them to be on top for longer periods of time... Or is the lack of those things being possible a turn on (you know, because it punctuates how fat they are)?
Anonymous asked: What subreddits are you subscribed to?
Anonymous asked: im fat and im in high school and ive never had a boyfriend...but i dont know what kind of guy to go for...i like black guys...but there are none where i live.
ffasdream asked: I think your blog is outstanding and have referred it to many of my more succulent and adorable female friends. I'm not a huge user of tumblr and have a stupid question that I hope you'll indulge me in answering: How can I offer a comment on select postings? I see that others have done it, and assume that you're ok with it. Thanks!
Anonymous asked: Have you ever had male friends find out a fat girl was attracted to them and they reacted negatively?
Anonymous asked: Looking for some advice - since we started dating nearly 7 years ago, my fiancé has put on quite a bit of weight (thyroid issue and a pregnancy). I've always tried to be honest with her that I prefer big/fat girls, but that I love her no matter her size. However, since gaining the weight, she's become very critical of herself - I think she looks amazing. Long question short - any...
Anonymous asked: How do I get the right guys attention? I want a funny sweet and cute guy but all the guys that hit on me are cocky and creepy..
staystrong-2012 asked: have you always openly liked fat chick or just started more openlying likeing them as you got older?
cambridge-socks asked: Don't leave us in suspense. How was the show?
Anonymous asked: I need your help, I found a rad FA on tumblr that lives near me and I want to talk to him but I have NO idea how to start the conversation... :O I feel like I only have one chance so I don't want to fuck it up.
ROCKFLICT OF INTEREST
My band. We’re playing at North Star Bar on Friday night with two of America’s best bands, Wussy and Low Cut Connie. I’m not fucking kidding; Rolling Stone’s praised them and everything. It’s 21+ and we go on at 9pm. You can buy tickets here. Please don’t judge my band by my blog/blog by my band/etc. But obviously it would be very cool if a couple extra folks...
Anonymous asked: So I am normally 5'6", 140, Recently dropped quite a bit. Obviously, my FA man is pretty bummed. I plan on gaining it back but have never really had to gain and am trying to figure it out. Do you know if there is a way to do that without eating myself sick? I'm all for stuffing, but I can't take it too far.
Anonymous asked: I'm fat (6'2 and between 240-250 at any given time, comfortable at between 225-230) and I get hit on by black dudes all the time. I try not to sound racist, but it probably comes across as racist that I don't like black guys. White guys don't want me because of two things: 1) I am super tall. 2) I am fat. I just turned 34 and it's a very lonely thing that guys...
ramseytime-deactivated20120814 asked: I think your blog is wonderful. I think you're wonderful. Thanks for answering all of these great questions and making fat babes around the world feel even better about themselves!
Anonymous asked: Can... you just post this to let all the girls out there know that there are some of us that prefer larger (like, turn-sideways-through-doors larger) ladies, but can still find most sizes down from there attractive? My current GF is probably only about the width of two fluffed hotel pillows stacked together, but still great to hold.
Anonymous asked: Same guy from before with "nervous" gf. I wanted to say ty for the advice and link, and that her and I are the same age and that for both of us this is our first relationship and we're taking things very slow. From your answer I feel like I'm on the right track and have been very cautious about the subject of her weight and I think I'll wait to bring it up for it it ever...
Anonymous asked: What do you mean by "fat" like chunky? Or just not a tooth pick?
letitbeamazing asked: Where do you all hang out you know for future reference :)
Anonymous asked: I wanted to add to that last anon: I'm around 350 lbs. I refuse to discuss the actual number with my boyfriend. I'm fat and that's all he needs to know about it. He has made one or two comments trying to slyly guess my weight in the 13 months we've been together and he apparently thinks I'm around 230 or 240. Don't be so concerned with what the scale says, because it...
Anonymous asked: Do guys who like fat girls only like ones over 180? An article, in the Village Voice, spoke about men who like heavier women but it seemed like even that had a weight requirement. At 5ft 1in, weighing 155 lbs. I don't seem to fit in anywhere. Aren’t there men who like that in-between size? This may seem like a simple question, but I am trying to understand how men can find a fat girl...
Anonymous asked: Dude, youre fucking awesome. I love fat chicks. And might i add, the picture above this is quite awesome.
mike63 asked: From another guy who likes fat chicks, I'd like to remark that I love your blog. I find your comments to be sincere without being over complicated. I feel Ike I've dealt with almost all of these feelings at one time or another.
Anonymous asked: Also, when girls kinda tuck their stomach into their pants to “hide” it, and then it sort of neutralizes the attractiveness of their midsection, what would be a good way to tell them that I think they would look better if they didn't do that, specifically my gf. We don't see each other that often, and I'm pretty sure this is because she's kinda nervous about dating...
Anonymous asked: Hi! I'm a high school guy, and I wanted to first say that I'm a big fan of your blog/tumbler, and it's really helped me to understand what to expect as someone who likes bigger girls. A few quick questions: You know how people say wearing black makes you look slim? Cause I've noticed that the opposite also seems to be true, ie girls will look especially good some days when they...
Anonymous asked: The same 27 year old virgin again,so my question was,how do I put myself out there slowly? I am yet not ready to hit on a guy straight up but how do I at least look like I am interested?!The funny thing in all of this is,through med school I had a bit of a reputation as a party girl,I go out,drink,dance but never even properly look at the men around. Was it just insecurity?God.
Anonymous asked: I am so glad I found your site! and you and your gf look amazing:) I am a 27 year old doctor who's a size 16,I have always had guys like me as a friend,or talk about how smart I was or cute.But I feel like guys are'nt attracted to me sexually. I was sexually abused from ages 8-12.A shrink I saw briefly, said I had serious issues with trust and need to get over it. Now I just dont know...
oatmealsprinkles asked: Don't actually have a question. Just kinda nice to know there are guys out there who like fat chicks. I'm ridiculously self conscious about not being a size 2. So, it's refreshing that you don't have to be bone thin for someone to think your body is sexxy. Thanks for all that you write about. <3
Anonymous asked: Hey I'm not sure if you ever answer a guy's questions but here it goes. I've always liked big girls ever since I can remember realizing it at about 14-15, it's always been hard to get a bigger girl to look at me nonetheless find me attractive. I'm about 5'10 and 170, I always heard it might be because it's intimidating since I'm on the in shape side and am...
Anonymous asked: You've been kind of bitter lately. What's up?
chocolatemilkandbaklava asked: More blog posts, please!
Anonymous asked: ...during high school he couldn't really talk to his guy friends about girls he was attracted to, and a lot of people assumed he was gay because he didn't talk about it. Before he told me all of that, I just never would have thought that any guys faced that kind of thing. But now I know and it makes me really mad that there are guys who get ridiculed simply because of the body type...
Anonymous asked: I truly appreciate your commitment to this. I am not even THAT big of a girl (5'2" and 165 at my heaviest) but I have always had the "chubby" look about me and I was never told anything about me was sexy except for my (admittedly awesome) boobs and of course the whole "pretty face" thing. My current boyfriend is a pretty scrawny guy - he's about 5'8"...
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend and I have been exploring our sexual relationship. It's been about a month now. Lately, after giving him head, he doesn't concern himself with touching me or pleasing me. We've talked about how it makes me feel insecure & unattractive bc he doesn't seem driven to want to please me as I do him. This last time we had a talk, he told me he just has to get used to...
Anonymous asked: I would definitely consider myself overweight, but I'm not HUGE or anything. I am 200 lbs, 5'9 but I am not even average so I'm bigger...whatever. Anyway, I am a virgin still at 20, and I can't get over the fact that I genuinely feel bad for anyone who has to touch me. I know you and other guys truly don't care, but I can't bring myself to allow anyone besides my...
Anonymous asked: Is it ever ok to ask your partner to change for you? Whether it's gain weight or lose it just for their pleasure?
brandyjenkins asked: I am a very fat chick. I am also gorgeous, uber-sexual, educated, accomplished, usually pretty confident about who I am and where I'm going and what I want out of life. I've been reading your blog for a while now, but I've never commented. I just want to say you're doing a great job. You offer pretty sincere advice to the people sincerely asking and successfully deflect the...
Anonymous asked: Dan - love your tumblr and your writing. Quick music question: what do you think of Pitchfork? I'm new to the indie scene and it fit the bill when I was looking for a consistent source of daily online music reviews. However, opinions I've heard about it have been polarized. What's your take on it? I know this isn't a fat chick question, sorry!
Anonymous asked: I'm fairly sure my fiancée isn't actually attracted to me. I mean, he is because he loves me but not because he genuinely thinks I'm attractive. How can I make him truly love and find my body sexy?
Anonymous asked: We haven't seen you around lately. Hope everything's okay on your end.
