June 2012
30 posts
Anonymous asked: Are you still with your Canadian girlfriend?
Anonymous asked: I'm a big girl, and very comfortable with that fact. The only time that I'm not comfortable is at some stages during sex, because there are just some things we can't do because of my size. We've worked out what we can do, and it's great. But I wouldn't mind changing things up a bit, so my question is, are there any positions you would recommend for a bigger girl and...
Anonymous asked: Cool, I can respect that. However, do you, per chance, happen to have a personal blog or something in which if someone were curious, they could get to know you, and befriend you, chat, connect, etc? Or would that be self promoting/out of line? Just curious.
Anonymous asked: Would you ever post personal details about your life; if asked?
Anonymous asked: Does being a fat admirer mean you like fat people exclusively, or does it mean you include fat people in your admiration of what's attractive/sexy/beautiful to you? I find myself to be very much attracted to fat people, and prefer them, but also find people of smaller, petite body types attractive, as well. Would I still be considered a fat admirer?
houseofcoco asked: Please come back to Portland! These dudes here need your influence. Spread the word and then dance it out at Booty Bassment.
Anonymous asked: It's hard to give a lot of information in an ask when there is a very short character limit.
Anonymous asked: I am fat, i accept this. I am as comfortable now at my thinnest (260) as I was at my heaviest (380). While my weight has changed, the connotation of me as "disgusting" or " lazy" is still there. I am healthy and successful in life. The only men that ever want me are the ones that need to get laid. I don't want that. I have been dealing with that for so many years. How on...
damemarie asked: so, i've been single for about 3 years now, i honestly stopped looking due to a lack of confidence and low self esteem. i've recently started looking again, and got on some bbw sites. i'm still scared though. i have this nagging thought in my head that maybe some of those guys don't know the meaning of bbw, that maybe they're in the wrong site, or that they're just...
Anonymous asked: okay so here's the deal. I'm 19, fat and no boobs (weird, but true). I've been avoiding the guy I made out with on New Years because well I was drunk when it happened. Any who I saw him yesterday and he was all touchy (both sober) and I know for a fact he doesn't date big girls. I don't know if I'm like a forbidden fruit to him or what because he was really trying...
Anonymous asked: Dan, come on... I get you're trying to be self-deprecating, but saying you're also surprised that fat chicks aren't the only chicks you can get is pretty offensive. If you want to make jokes about yourself that's fine, but leave us fatties out of it.
Anonymous asked: Dear guy who likes fat chicks, do you really PREFER fat chicks, or are they just all you can get? If you could build your own perfect woman, would you really make her fat?
Anonymous asked: That lengthy question below made me so nervous. I'm in a similar boat (sort of). Boyfriend is an FA, I'm bigger but not that large... he says he can be attracted to women of all sizes but I'm nervous because I know what kind of porn he used to watch (AFAIK he's not really watching porn now, but it's not a huge deal to me anyway). How do I know if he's still into me...
Anonymous asked: To me, it sounds like this guy is asking to be left (not necessarily on the consciuos level)
annegotfat asked: There aren't solutions to sexual preferences.
Anonymous asked: Wow, thank you a lot for that advice. About the virgin thing, yeah I'm sorry I wasn't more specific I am a "penis to vagina" virgin and so is he, only in that aspect. I am going to talk to him and just see where things go, I really appreciate your insight and your time to respond. It may not be what I wanted to hear, but its def something I knew but just wanted advice, again I...
Anonymous asked: [3] know what to do. I've told him that I don't want him to feel sad or feel like he's missing something, and that he could go find someone more of his preference but he really doesn't want to, he wants to stay with me. I don't know what to do. I've asked other ppl for advice but they are rude to me and it just makes me hurt more. I just need insight from a man with...
Anonymous asked: [2] honest with each other, so he told me that he just doesn't feel sexually attracted to me, because the big women that he likes are much, much more bigger than I am. He doesn't want to leave me over this because he says he loves me for who I am, and that one day he will find a solution to the sexual attractedness. (btw we are both virgins waiting till marriage). He hopes that if we do...
Anonymous asked: [1} Sigh, okay. I've been looking everywhere for help and there isn't anywhere to turn, but I found this blog, I really really hope you can give me some advice. I've been with my bf for 2 years. We both love eachother very much. Well, he told me in the first couple of months that we were dating that he likes "big women." I thought it was fine, i'm 5'8 and weigh...
Anonymous asked: just a random thought, I have encountered many FA's that are looking for girls who are happy with their bodies, confident in their skin, and enjoy being fat. If they can ask that of us then it's a fair trade to expect them to be open about liking us right? Why expect us to love our bodies and love being fat when your closeted status makes it something to be ashamed of?
big-blonde-beautiful07 asked: Do you know of any sites that I can post my pictures on and get positive feedback? I just want people to look at me and appreciate my curves.
deliriumgrey asked: So, there is this guy at my job who turns me on like crazy but I am way too shy to approach him. Also, every girl that I have seen him with has been really skinny and pretty and I feel like, no matter how pretty I am, the skinny thing will be a deal breaker. And it is REALLY hard to look nice at work because we have to wear hairnets and I am constantly covered in pureed vegetables. All I really...
Anonymous asked: Re: the commenter who called you sexist. I don't see that. How can you be sexist you like women as people? You got your girlfriend for a reason!
Anonymous asked: When would people understand, that life isn't as complicated? Like who you like, and fuck everything and anything else, Carpe Diem Motherfuckers!!!!
shotabooties asked: I would like to say; I'm a fat chick, classified as morbidly obese for my entire adult life, who has never, ever had a lack of interested potential partners. As someone who is into all sorts of body types, I've had people all over a wide spectrum sizes. It's not really that hard to find people, people with whom you find mutual attraction, if you show confidence in yourself and have...
Anonymous asked: I was always an "in the closet" fat chick. I have always been fat, fat is visible, but I never EVER talked about it. I'm 28, and a few years ago I finally accepted the fact that I am fat. Now I have a tall, handsome guy who loves me. We play with my belly fat during sex, we go on double dates with his friends, and I'm even going on vacation with his family. He finds me to be...
Anonymous asked: I am pretty, I know that. BUT...I am a big girl with a small bust. I don't need a bra, kind of small, but whatever. I'm still damned hot. So, would a guy who likes fat chicks still be attracted to a fat chick without the big and bouncy bubbles? Is it the bust size that most attracts a Fat Admirer? 5'5" and 237 pounds. Any thoughts? I appreciate your appreciation.
Anonymous asked: I'm 15, male, and a rather serious person. I also like fat chicks, which I've known since puberty. My problem, which I'd like to ask, is if you have any advise on how to deal with a family [mine] that is what I'd call "fat phobic"? "I'd just kill myself if I ever got that fat", "Oh look at that pig.", "She shouldn't be wearing...
Anonymous asked: Hi, I love your blog! I am about 5 feet tall and 220 - 240 lbs. With my active lifestyle, a good bit of it is muscle so I may look lighter than I am. I am still a big girl and I like being called fat or even playfully teased about my weight but I never attract guys like that. My fatter friends find guys that genuinely like them and their weight but I am very happy with my body currently. This is...
Anonymous asked: Actually, can you post a link that will help us avoid guys like you? Not guys who like fat girls, just sexist guys. That'd be great.
