May 2012
55 posts
roadtothinland asked: Haha I know what you mean. But honestly I just wanna be healthy, fat or thin. So since Im on the fat side, might as well embrace it :)
roadtothinland asked: LOVE this blog.
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Anonymous asked: Not an ask. Just wanted to say: Dan, you are awesome and damn hot. I love your blog (and articles.. etc) and hope it's always around in one form or another. As a proud fat chick myself with (imho) one of the hottest bf under the sun, I just want to let all you wonderful fat girls know you can have whatever you want, and anyone who ever tells you otherwise can fuck right off. There is...
myrilmae007 asked: thanks for following, this blog's inspiring :)
Anonymous asked: hi, i'm a bisexual girl who is currently happily dating a gorgeous fat girl. there's one problem though. i can tell that she's kind of insecure about her size. it's like she doesn't believe me when i say she's insanely hot. sometimes i think it has something to do with the fact that i'm rather skinny and have had eating disorder issues in the past (which...
Anonymous asked: I've never been treated as a second or discriminated against, I feel more like I'm the one that judges myself worse. Being a fashion student is kind of weird when you're fat. Working around models and other fashion students who are also quite tall and thin. But that doesn't matter what I guess I'm here to say is that I don't get treated differently and I guess...
Anonymous asked: Okay. So two things. 1. I'm 5'6" and 240lbs, not that it matters, & I generally think I'm pretty, & don't have a huge confidence issue, but I think my face looks bloated all the time & takes away from my facial beauty. Do fatter faces bother you? 2. More importantly, my tits are huge. Like, literal-watermelons-under-my-shirt huge, & when I'm...
Anonymous asked: So... I'm the anon that asked the question about my husband liking my belly fat. It seems that I missed your first response to it but I'm not overly butthurt about it. Maybe I would be if I saw it, I don't really know. All I know is, I asked you a question in the hopes that you would be honest. I came to you for advice, not hand holding, and I feel like I got what I asked for. I...
Anonymous asked: Do you think it makes your girlfriend insecure to hear that you favor black or Latina women? There's nothing wrong with that at all (obviously, half Mexican/half white girl here) but do you think it's at all akin to a guy publicly saying "I prefer thin women" when he's got a fat girlfriend? (For the record, since this IS tumblr, this is in no way me attacking your...
Anonymous asked: Your follower were so mean to that girl she clearly thought that is what you meant ... Youdon't have to tear her down just cause she miss read/ over reacted alittle
Anonymous asked: Proud fat chick again. Also wanted to say to all the fat girlies out there that have trouble accepting or enjoying their entire bodies for sexual enjoyment I strongly suggest masturbation. Play with yourself while playing with yourself. Grab your own belly, slap your own ass or thighs... etc. It may not be for everyone but I can say from personal experience that it completely opened up a whole new...
joanied asked: maybe i overreacted to what you said but i really did take deep offense. i deal with people saying she is pretty for a black girl all the time and what do those scum bags think make a black girl "pretty" having more european features. it is wrong and drives me crazy. cause people don't say that when they talk about other races. maybe this is not what you meant then i am sorry but it...
Anonymous asked: Sometimes when my bf and I are fucking my belly or arm fat does this thing where it makes a noise sort of like a fart, and I get really, really embarrassed- like want to hide my face and cry embarrassed. Has any of your partners ever had this happen? Was it a turn off for you?
joanied asked: hey i was reading your whole blog love but i have to say one thin. on febarary 5 th some asked you about why it seems that Caucasian guy not not going after other races of bbw and you answer deeply offended me. you said your own taste is toward "pretty black" / latina. what is "pretty black" saying there is a pretty black type suggest their is an "ugly black"...
Anonymous asked: Do you ever get tired of answering these questions? All this sameness makes me wonder why I even follow you anymore. Aahah
Anonymous asked: Is 199 pounds concidered fat for being 5'6? :/ Need opionion! D:
fuckingyouisstrange asked: I'm curious, I know some guys are ass men, and some guys are boob men. But I also noticed that for FA's that there is more to it than just a nice butt or tits. What really revs your motor on a fat girl? :) Hope that's not too personal. I'm a big fan of this blog and so is my husband.
Anonymous asked: (2) doesn’t like belly play, and your answer isn’t appropriate if that’s the case. however, unless the anon comes back and clarifies that she did mean that (and even then, she asked for advice on getting more comfortable, and it’s not exactly a case where you should advise her to be like, TELL HIM TO GTFO OMG), then i don’t think your response was problematic. (sorry...
Anonymous asked: (1) i can see how your response could be taken in a sexist way, like, "your husband loves your belly so just get over it and let him do what he wants"- but it was implied that the person would like to have him do that in the future, so i personally didn't feel that it came off that way. like, i think it depends on the question itself, since i took it as she didn’t like it...
Anonymous asked: I am a chubby girl, not horribly chubby but bigger-than-the-rest-of-my-friends chubby, and I was wondering if I join an online dating site will it make me look intensely creepy?
Anonymous asked: My weight is around 280 pounds. I not only have confidence issues with my weight, but with my looks as well. I've never thought of myself as a pretty girl. I've heard everything from the typical "You've got a pretty face, but you would be even prettier if you lost weight" to "She lost out in looks and body". What's the best way to look past it all and build...
Anonymous asked: What do you do when the medical field keeps pushing the whole health issue on us saying that 160 is overweight, or women must be around this weight and if not then overtime things will get worst? I am a lover of fat women and I feel like this epidemic of being thin will get to a point where those of us who are Fat admirer's will have to hide again.
mindtwinkies asked: i have spent many years single because i wanted to wait for a man i truly wanted and who wanted me. NEVER BE IN A RELATIONSHIP JUST TO HAVE SOMEONE! i have had an active sex life, on my terms, the whole time but a worthwhile man is much harder to find. develop yourself and be ok waiting. it's ok to find outlets for your natural sexual energy. and finally, the stars aligned. a man who deserves...
Anonymous asked: I think your answer was OK. I mean, she said she's fond of your blog, so she should be accustomed to your sometimes playfully "rude" humor. Someone called you sexist... come on, you just said that her husband loves her and she should just relax to feel better. What else there was to say? You'd have said the same thing to a man. PS you might consider Dragon Naturallyspeaking,...
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Was that last post really dick? I’m sorry about that, didn’t mean for it to be. What’s there to say? When you’re married til-death-do-you-part to someone who loves you inside and out, I hope that your love for yourself can only grow exponentially knowing that someone else loves you so much they pledged their life to you. I’d hate to tell this person that many of the...
Anonymous asked: My husband loves my belly. I am not so fond of it personally... is there any advice you can give me that might help me be more comfortable letting him touch and play with my big belly? (Also, I love your blog, you are fantastic!)
calypso-isle asked: I posted awhile ago about having inverted nipples and feeling extremely uncomfortable showing my boobs to anyone. I recently hooked up with a guy and slept all night with him, COMPLETELY naked. He didn't say anything about them, he actually seemed to be a big fan of my boobs :D. Plus, he is a super in shape tennis instructor and despite that, I still felt completely comfortable with my body...
mindtwinkies asked: fair enough :)
Anonymous asked: I'm a chubby girl and I was wondering... Will I ever be able to sit on my boyfriends lap?
littlelaurakitten asked: This isn't a question, I just wanted to say you're brilliant with these questions and I really enjoy reading your blog. So thankyou!
Anonymous asked: There is this guy who I like. The problem is that he tells my brother (who is smaller than me in size) to lose weight. He won't say anything to me but I don't know what to think. He is always flirting with me and I've seen him flirt with other big girls but he only dates skinny chicks. Should I just move on?
Anonymous asked: What's your opinion on things like Spanx?
Anonymous asked: I am in a bit of a situation with my fiance. She is a beautiful big woman and I am a admirer. She weighs in the early 200's now. See thats my concern, she feels that she has to drop a big amount of weight just to feel better about herself, when in the past shes never been so foward about it before. We go to the gym which is nice and good but I feel she's going to get obsessed with going...
thefantasticgigi asked: Ok so I'm brand new to dating of any kind. I'm a fat girl and have never really been interested in the idea. I was much more interested in my geeky activities (Buffy! Harry Potter! Terry Pratchett! The Internet! Dr Who!), to really care about wanting someone else. Now I want to try dating. My question is how the hell do I get started? I'm bisexual so I was thrilled to see you have ...
alexwileden asked: how come it seems more black guts like bbw's?
Anonymous asked: (part 2) even my husband always dated thinner women.. and this gave me both a sense of power but deep inside picked at my self esteem because i worried more about how i looked naked vs the smaller girls.. maybe it is because i portray the image of someone who loves their body, and for the most part i do.. but i just wonder what your thoughts on the matter are.
Anonymous asked: this really isn't an ask or a plea for advice, just something i wanted you thoughts on.. i've a bigger girl.. currently in the low 200's, but i have been 300.. so all over.. and from the time i got out of high school, i had never had an issue attracting men. but here is where i seem to get confused, because society has always taught me that some guys like thin girls, some guys like...
randomlancila asked: I fail to see what's so hard to understand about the concept of 'love my body, but not ONLY my body'. No one wants to feel like their body is the ONLY thing going for them, nor do they want to feel like it's the only thing that's NOT going for them. It's a balance.
Anonymous asked: If sexual attraction didn't matter, gay people wouldn't exist
Anonymous asked: Question about fetishes: I don't necessarily like fat chicks, but I love girls with a belly, big or small. Along with that sexual preference however, weight gain and stuffing (a girl eating a lot) turn me on too (a lot). Are weight gain and stuffing considered fetishes? Or are they just turn-ons/kinks?
Anonymous asked: Do guys really care how the vagina looks? Sometimes I worry I have a ugly vagina and it stops me from going all the way with a guy. Do guys really worry about how the vagina looks?
Anonymous asked: Even for a guy like you, there has to be limits of how big is too big. So, what do you think that limit is?
Anonymous asked: In regard's to the previous anon: I don't understand the sentiment wanting to be loved "not because of or in spite of" your body. I hear that all the time. Part of a relationship is that desire to be desired by your partner. Sex is important. Who doesn't want to feel wanted on a carnal level from time to time?
Anonymous asked: Ok, So I guess what I want to say... not ASK is: I have no idea if I qualify as 'fat' under your terms. But I do know that people see me that way. I don't want whoever I am in a relationship with to want be with me because OR despite my 'fattness'. Is it too much to ask to be liked for who I am first, and what I look like second? Ok, maybe I have a question. If we are...
Anonymous asked: Hello, So i just wanted to say that my name is David and I love fat/curvy girls. As long as i could remember i have always been attracted to woman who had some meat on them. I now am currently 22 and i am in love with a beatiful girl who is 300 pounds and is so fucking sexy. I love every thing about who she is as a person and who she is physically. Recently i proposed to her and she is now my...
insassingaround asked: do you often hear from other guys who like fat chicks who feel like they are special snowflakes who should be lauded by the fat female community?
unwantedasian asked: Why Dont boys like girls who are fat ?
lifesateacup-deactivated2012072 asked: I just realized I forgot the 'r' in 'your' in my earlier post. Sorry about that. As for society...who cares what they think about you hugging a fat girl? I'm soft and cute and they can fuck off.
Anonymous asked: do u have picz and vidz of couples man with woman's plump belly to hot??
