February 2012
62 posts
Anonymous asked: how do you feel about fat chicks and skinny jeans? i hear so much hate but i prefer them.
purfukt-deactivated20120519 asked: I swear this page totally made me open up about my weight. I've always thought it was a taboo to be a thicker female but now I realize that I can totally be seen as beautiful even with a few extra pounds on my waist line. This blog has my thumbs up and its awesome to know that this skinny dude who likes fat chicks is a fellow New Yorker. Love love love this blog <3
READ PART 1
Of Janssen McCormick’s piece of fat sex for boston.com here, and while you’re at it, check out this adorable earlier piece too.
Anonymous asked: I'm roughly 5'3" and I fluctuate between the 190s and early 200s. And most of the time, I don't have a problem with my weight and actually don't mind being fat. I just wish I was fat in a different way. Like a bigger butt and bigger thighs. It sounds backwards, but I've resorted to losing weight to achieve some form of that look and the smaller I get, the fonder I...
Anonymous asked: Ok so u prolly get questions like this daily. Humor me for a sec? Ok so I'm a girl. Other girls & tons of old ladies tell me I'm pretty. So I gather I'm not too hard to look at...right? Well there's this guy friend of mine, who constantly flirts w/me & is kinda hot. If I didn't know better I'd think he were into me. But I'm also super curvy and...
sarahrain22 asked: You've got a pic of your gf up? Can I see it? Where's it at?
Anonymous asked: Would your gf ever be open to a threesome with another girl? I'm bi and a FA and good golly she is lovely
Anonymous asked: what is it about fat that you like? is it more tactile or visual? would you stop being attracted to a girl if she lost a significant amount of weight?
Anonymous asked: yeah, the quick links on the left are a great idea but with all the capital letters and X's the first thing I thought was that you were hacked by Anonymous or something.
justalicatt asked: Online dating hasn't worked for me over the past 12 months, and I can't travel (at least right now) any suggestions on how to meet people? Living in the middle of nowhere sucks ass.
Anonymous asked: Have you ever tried to pick up a woman while waiting in line at an Arby's or other fast food establishment? If so, how did you get the conversation rolling?
Anonymous asked: Ever go to the 'fat' tag page on Tumblr? There's so much self loathing. (ps, those X's look horrible, they are an eye strain)
keridwen asked: I'm a 46 year old fat woman. I don't have any confidence in how I look because most people don't find us fluffy girls attractive. Where can I find a nice guy who appreciates a big girl?
chocolatemilkandbaklava asked: Since discovering your blog, the notion that "fat is hot" has really seeped into my brain. Last night my mom was watching Biggest Loser, and it showed the fat contestants in bare-bellied outfits. Ordinarily I would have averted my eyes in embarrassment or something (because that's what my belly looks like). But last night my first reaction was "Wow, pretty!" So, yeah. I...
Anonymous asked: your girlfriend lives in canada, while you live in the states, right? How often do you two see each other? And how long have you made it work?
HAPPY PRESIDENTS DAY MOTHERFUCKERS
Taft was also the only president to also serve as Chief Justice of the Supreme Court. Stick that in your fucking tub.
akissforeachpage asked: is fat sexy in the same way that breasts are? Is it how it feels?
Anonymous asked: i am a girl with a girlfriend who would probably be deemed overweight by most people. i think her body is so sexy and i would love seeing her relax and be happy with it too. she always worries about her size and says she wants to diet although she never really has. is it wrong for me to express my love of her extra fat (i don't refer to it as that)? or should i try to forget my love of big...
trolldadaytakk asked: One ex had me rather perplexed. When I went out with her she was a larger lady. A few years later I ran into her and she'd lost a lot of weight. What was weird is it was like looking and talking to a stranger. This new thinner version just wasn't 'her' anymore, at least not the same lady I once dated. Yet all her interests were the same. I've had other exes lose or gain...
trolldadaytakk asked: Wow... just finished reading all 35 pages (plus a lot of the links). Took me a couple of days but I made it. Not sure if I am an FA or not but I like what you have to say. I've dated ladies of all sizes (my current partner and mother of my kids was a little on the larger side when we met and is a little bigger now - not that it matters). (continued next question)
CAN SOMEONE PLEASE
Compile a definitive list of BBW dating websites/chats/social networks and link me when your glorious unpaid work is finished? I would very much like to be able to not have to suggest the same places off the top of my head every time and I do not think I’m very helpful with that anyway. If someone does the gruntwork of compiling a comprehensive list of links, I promise to write little guides...
Anonymous asked: Okay I'm a woman in my 20's and I go back and forth between 230 and 240. I don't know if its just the area I live in or what but the only guys that seem to get interested are either old enough to be my dad (or older sometimes) or looking for a quick lay because I'm fat (I really did have a guy say that to me after I turned him down). I know I'm still young but sometimes I...
Anonymous asked: I've been constantly (two months now) IM-ing with this guy I met on FF. He has a couple of photos on his profile but he never Skyped with me. He always has an excuse to not show his face on cam. I have no idea if he's legit or what. Lately I've been getting messages on FF that this guy is a liar and a posing as someone he's not. Should I burn the bridge? I have plans of seeing...
Anonymous asked: 2. , sarcastically saying that he was the worst guy for being honest with me and how I hate him. I told him I didn't hate him, but I was really disappointed. I guess I hadn't had something that is such a skated over so often thrown in my face before. In a way it was good to see and hear it point blank and I'm not so much worse for the wear. I don't want someone so afraid...
Anonymous asked: 1. I was once chatting with a guy on okcupid. We were getting along fairly well and spoke about meeting. Eventually the conversation turned to sex(as it does) and the guy seemed totally into me, and I him. At the time though, I wasn't looking for any kind of hook up or no strings attached deal, and I told him as much. Long story short, he told me that we couldn't date because we,...
shootingstarsonly asked: I'd read one of your interviews forever ago and I cursed India and the lack of FA here.
shootingstarsonly asked: So I was just looking at your blog and I went to the other room to get my phone. Came back, BOOM! askaguywholikesfatchicks is following you. Oh hell yes.
jaclynxhyde asked: in reference to one of your answers, out of curiosity, i wanna know some of the celebrity rumors you've heard from fat chicks?
Anonymous asked: I'm curious about these celebrity rumors. Are you willing to share?
Anonymous asked: HOLY SHIT! As if you couldn't get any better...you're wearing the same The Xx shirt that I own in your "Health At Every Size" ad!!!! You have no idea how excited this makes me. You're truly a god amongst mere mortals! BTW, were you at the Jonathan Toubin benefit at the Brooklyn Bowl last December? Thought I might have seen you there.
dropdeaddivawrites-deactivated2 asked: Some men love fat women. Now that’s a relief, but I’d have to add that it is hard to come across one. Sometimes you get lucky. Sometimes you don’t. “I like you but…” I dread hearing those words… And I’ve heard it all before. To some men, appearance is a factor and I’ve had my share of meeting men with “preferences.” The thing is,...
akissforeachpage asked: Do you think guys who like fat chicks are less confident in actually approaching women? I think one of the reasons that some fat girls don't feel secure in themselves, and this goes for myself, is that we never get spoken to or flirted with openly by men.
Anonymous asked: Why does everyone decide that if you're fat, you obviously stuff your face with Twinkies and McDonalds five times a day? I hate the assumptions that being fat means you eat more than anyone else.
Anonymous asked: Hi! You recommend reverse cowgirl as a good position. As a tall fat chick, I'm wondering about the logistics of this. Does the girl crouch down? Or be on her knees? Does the guy do most of the work from below? Sorry to sound silly, but I've always been scared to try it out of fear or my legs getting too tired too quickly. Thank you! Love your blog!
Anonymous asked: my boyfriend likes bbw (and i'm not one), he often chats to people on sites and has recently started skyping some. Sometimes he hides it, i've tried to be understanding, embrace it, bring into our sex life and be a good girlfriend. He likes the element of secrets but also feels ashamed and guilty. What more can i do?
Anonymous asked: Just wanted to say happy belated valentine's day, and thank you for putting the issue of cheating in perspective for me (like, two weeks ago). =) I'm glad you have this site and I enjoy reading all your witty answers! Guess I'll put this here so it looks like a question: ?
Anonymous asked: Who are some thin women you find attractive? im just curious what your "type" is outside of fat women since I seem to remember you saying you did find some thinner women attractive.
Anonymous asked: If I'm less than 200 lbs, am I wrong to try to fit into this culture? I'm not exactly fitting into the mainstream one, but reading a lot of these posts, I feel like I'm just as unattractive to FAs as skinny admirers. (I could seriously see this ask coming off the wrong way and you coming up with some delightfully witty jackass response, but just know that I'm being very sincere...
sadargyle-deactivated20120214 asked: I see many arguments suggesting women with large breasts are "required" to wear bras. It's up to each individual, however society seems to frown upon letting your chariots swing low even if you wear layers and are tasteful. In your opinion is it socially acceptable for those above a B or C to swing free?
Anonymous asked: picture of you?
Anonymous asked: I'm the poster who asked about liking girls under 300 lbs. It's not that 300 lbs is some magic number. It's about the look. Yea, I would worry about the things we could do together and health, but depending on her height, i generally see girls 300+ and for lack of a better phrase, my dick goes soft. I have nothing against those girls, they're just not for me. It was just a...
achaoticenigma asked: This magic weight number of 300lbs is driving me nuts! I know so many lovely ladies that weigh more than that yet people are oblivious to it. The poundage doesn't matter, does it? If you find a girl sexy/hot/gorgeous whatever even if shes say a size 12 or a size 30+ aka (175lbs or 300+lbs) why do the numbers matter? Just sayin' a fine lady is fine...a number shouldn't change that.
Anonymous asked: I see girls posting here asking if FAs will be attracted to them because they weigh less than 300 lbs. I also see FAs claiming that anything under 300 lbs is too thin for them. I find myself attracted to girls who are curvy, thick, chubby and fat but I'm not attracted to skinny girls or girls 300 lbs+. Am I still considered an FA?
Anonymous asked: I feel like you swooped by something big by not paying better attention to the woman who talked about being a virgin. That word is HUGELY loaded. It's hard to shake the ringing of it in your ears when you are sensitive to it, esp when people use it constantly as short hand for loser: "a virgin who lives in his mother's basement"…"40yo virgin… It's a big...
phatandchic asked: Hey there, I'm a bi BBW from Chicago interested in meeting someone preferably a BBW or BHM but I don't know any resources :( I joined a couple dating sites like match and ok Cupid and that really sucked. Thought I'd see if you knew any good ones? Thanks and <3 your blog.
Anonymous asked: I don't see how or why you'd lose followers/friends either, really, if you started dating a thin chick. Just because you're attracted to fat chicks doesn't mean you can't also be attracted to thin chicks, right? My bf's exes have varied, I'm obviously fat, but his recent ex was thin, some were a bit curvy ... they range. I don't think attraction should be...
likefuckingspinningplates said: Its true that love is about more than someones body but I’d sill love to know that answer, especially given that he runs the tumblr magiclistofguyswholikefatchicks.
Ahh, I didn’t know that was him. Someone else has anonymously vouched for his...
