September 2011
21 posts
handsomebees-deactivated2012031 asked: Who is your all time favorite Plus sized fictional movie/t.v/comic character? I'm gonna go with Tracy Turnblad (the original Ricki Lake version). NOW YOU.
randomlancila asked: OBESITY itself is NOT an illness, and does not have any ill effects. An unhealthy lifestyle does. You can be thin, fat, or anywhere in between to be unhealthy. Obesity CAN be a side effect of underlying health problems. But the point is, it is not for ANYONE to judge what anyone else does with their bodies. If someone wants to be unhealthy, that's their prerogative. LET THEM BE.
Anonymous asked: I notice you only post questions that are complimentary to you and your life style. All you do is say the same stuff over and over again. Why do you like to ignore the fact that obesity and obesity related illnesses are killing millions of Americans each year? Im not trashing your, or others, life choices but, how do you just ignore the implications?
August 2011
18 posts
THANK YOU
300 followers! Not bad for a two-month existence. I love you all.
Anonymous asked: Do you have a regular tumblr you use to just blog about things you like?
bodylovewellness asked: Hi Dan, Kudos on the tumblr! I just wanted to respond to your response to the big guy who likes big women. I think it may be good to take another look at that post. Not all women who have been in FA for a while prefer thin men. I think there's a huge range and it totally varies. (See, e.g. my BF and Marilyn Wann's BF.) I'm just mentioning this because I feel like you did a bit...
1. I’m sick of not being able to reply in my comments (I also think the questions/comments area is butt-ugly) - Can anyone recommend a better Tumblr layout for this blog’s format? I’d like to adhere closely to this one with the graphic at the top if possible. Or better, anyone know how to hack it?
2. Anyone great at HTML or building websites want to volunteer to help with a...
Anonymous asked: You rock. Now if you don't mind me using your blog as a platform. Ladies and gentlemen of the FA movement, belittling and resenting people who are not your body type will not make you feel better. Dudes who want to fuck hot fat chicks, stop telling them their thinner friends in their pictures look like emaciated holocaust victims. This is neither cute nor acceptable. We need to move towards...
Anonymous asked: I'm a big guy who likes big women. Would I be less likely to be rejected or seen as creepy if I approached a BBW? Is it easier for big guys to attract BBWs?
Anonymous asked: I realy don´t have a q but I just want to say WOOOOOW!!! And thans alot!:) I´m a fat girl here i Sweden and I just love your blog. Sending it along to my friends:) Keep it up!:) Maria
menwholovebigwomen-deactivated2 asked: How does a skinny guy go about cuddling with a big girl - not at home in bed, that is easy. I mean, how does a skinny guy cuddle with a big girl in the movies, or on a couch? It just feels like there is a lot of ground to cover with one arm, or like the two of you are sort of approaching each other from awkward angles.
Have you given any thought to this, or is this something that...
Have you given any thought to this, or is this something that...
Anonymous asked: I am a big girl but im having difficulty finding a guy who is attracted to me inside & out ... ive had plenty of relationships & i love who i am but it seems that most of the guys i meet put me in that " she has a great personality " category so they dont look at me for more than just a friend... & the few i have met that acted interested only wanted sex & im looking for...
Anonymous asked: I know you came out when you were 18, but I'm a 20 year old thinking about coming out of the closet and I was wondering how you went about it. Where and when did you tell people? Who did you tell first? What fears did you have? What would you have done differently? Any advice?
lorilately asked: i worship you and your unapologetic progressive attitude. you are amazing. =))
Anonymous asked: I'm a fat chick, and my husband enjoys my body. However, I have to lose weight because of my health. I'm worried that my husband won't find me attractive once I lose some weight. Do you have any wisdom for me?
Anonymous asked: I know this is going to sound totally ridiculous, but I do have a question. I have worked on my self esteem as a super size big beautiful woman for a long time now, and have for the most part learned to love me. There is just one part of me I cannot like no matter how hard I try. My inner thighs. I have extra skin on both sides and it looks like I have a little butt there. it repulses me. Here is...
Anonymous asked: Hey, question! As a newly-single bigger lady, I was wondering if you could share some of your reliably non-creepy FA dating websites?
Anonymous asked: I'm a fat girl myself, very confident with my body, and into fat guys.
But i've never so much received a look from ANY guys, even though i'm doing everything I should be.
How can I attract bigger guys or ANY guys?
But i've never so much received a look from ANY guys, even though i'm doing everything I should be.
How can I attract bigger guys or ANY guys?
Anonymous asked: Hi, short time reader, first time asker, throwing a query at you.
First of all, I'm a guy, to be more specific, I'm not a guy who shys away from the ruebenesque ladies.
While I do find myself more frequently staring at the fatter lady in the crowd, I am most definately a person attracted to all women rather than just the bbw's among us. The skinny and...
First of all, I'm a guy, to be more specific, I'm not a guy who shys away from the ruebenesque ladies.
While I do find myself more frequently staring at the fatter lady in the crowd, I am most definately a person attracted to all women rather than just the bbw's among us. The skinny and...
Anonymous asked: I have to call "bullshit" on the fact that you and other FA's are describing things like a "coming out" process and being "not ready" to make your assertion to the world about your preferences (just read your most recent interview as well as the one in the VV). OK, not "bs" but more the obligatory "wtf". Everything you are describing is based...
