August 2011
18 posts
Anonymous asked: I have to call "bullshit" on the fact that you and other FA's are describing things like a "coming out" process and being "not ready" to make your assertion to the world about your preferences (just read your most recent interview as well as the one in the VV). OK, not "bs" but more the obligatory "wtf". Everything you are describing is based...
July 2011
8 posts
Anonymous asked: Ok, my girlfriend is a very beautiful girl and I love every aspect of her, and I want her to be happy. And most times, she is happy, but whenever she gains just a little weight, she starts freaking out calling herself "fat" negatively rather than in a positive way I guess if that makes any sense at all. How can I get her to realize that she is beautiful no matter what and that she...
stacapricciosa asked: I've seen a fair share of chubby guys go out with pretty girls without a complaint(at least not that I have heard of). But when it comes to a bigger lady it seems that couples get tons of shit for it. Do you think there is any particular reason it is less frowned on to see a conventionally attractive girl with a chubby guy, while fat girl/ANY guy couples are much less accepted?
fatbrat-deactivated20121107 asked: One of the questions I get the most is "How can I attract a guy.." and I can't stress enough how much confidence plays into it. Confidence, how you carry yourself, it all shows in your walk, your talk, your presentation. As a male, can you just reiterate for me and my followers how important confidence is, especially if you're fat (considering a lot of fat girls have hangups...
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a nice lady interviewed me for plus size profile magazine, which you can read here, here and here.
cons: takes forever to load and the layout’s subhuman pros: after the interviewer added me on twitter i discovered she’s a pro domme and escort which is rad
Anonymous asked: This might be a terribly immature question, but please forgive me.
I am a junior at a university chock full o' bros, and they got no love for the chub. That being said, is there like a genre of guy would be most likely to be true FA? I know it's super petty high school to even talk about kinds of people, but I guess just assume we are going by those stereotypes. I'm...
I am a junior at a university chock full o' bros, and they got no love for the chub. That being said, is there like a genre of guy would be most likely to be true FA? I know it's super petty high school to even talk about kinds of people, but I guess just assume we are going by those stereotypes. I'm...
Anonymous asked: You're really real, right? I'm not going to get to the end of this and find out this is a running gag on the Onion, am I?
June 2011
36 posts
Anonymous asked: Dan, what is the best way to get in touch with you? Thanks!
fuckyouandeverythingyouenjoy-de asked: Do you think full on body acceptance will happen some day? Or is the movement just going to take continuous baby steps while the dieting industry makes millions out of warping body images and breeding self loathing in people of all shapes and sizes?
anchors-aweigh-ladies asked: Hi! First of all, the article in the Voice was great. Secondly, this might be weird, but can we be friends? I live in NYC/Brooklyn and would like to at least have someone just to talk to who knows about this stuff. I am "chubby" I guess, in that weird gray area that you have talked about on your other blog. Lately I've been feeling like I'm not fat enough for people into...
Anonymous asked: I feel odd cause Im short, fat, long hair, really young (18), and I feel like no body will actually want to date me. I mean, I just barely got my first kiss like on may 1st, and i kinda mess around with him, not too extreme, but he already said he doesnt do long distance and wont date me, but come to see me. I know he wants to fuck, he said so... but I want a relationship... do i deserve a...
Anonymous asked: In your experience, how do FAs generally feel about going down on their fat chicks? I'm an attractive fat chick (5'7", 259) with good grooming and hygiene habits, but I've always been self-conscious about letting a guy get an up-close look at my lady bits -- what if he doesn't like what he sees? Do FAs really WANT to be down there? Thanks! -Jess
menwholovebigwomen-deactivated2 asked: Is it okay to tell your big girl that her size is one of the things you like about her? I have been dating a big girl for about three weeks now, and we don't ever talk about her size, or my size - but we do tell one another that we find each other attractive. I want to say something like, "I just love that belly of yours," but I don't want to make her feel self-concious or...
Anonymous asked: I am obviously a larger lady, but my issue is I started dating this wonderful man who is not bigger anyways we just became sexually active and I feel like all our postions are so boring... doggy, missionary, and me ontop.... do you know any other postions we can try... and that won't scare him haha but can work with a bigger woman?
Anonymous asked: Fat chicks are gross, man.
Anonymous asked: Could you post something other than your response to fat chicks saying "I think I'm ugly. Am I ugly? Could you find a nice boy who could tell me I'm pretty? *teehee* are youuu that boyyy?" I would like to believe that you have more thought-provoking and legitimate things to say other than placating some gals who just want validation. I'm not bitter, just feeling...
your-royal-thighness asked: Hi. I wanted to say thank you for your blog! A friend of mine showed it to me a couple of months ago and it totally blew my mind. I've felt beautiful and cute before, but I never thought that I could ever be sexy at my size. After I read most of it, I joined a dating site for BBW's and started talking to men a lot more, even if I knew they weren't an FA. It really showed me...
Anonymous asked: First of all, YOU EXIST! I swear, FAs were like Bigfoot to me. I was told they existed, but there was no proof. Thank you for being proof.
Now my concern is, is there any way to tell a FA who's in it for the long run as opposed to a guy who is just horny? Because I've had partial encounters with a guy or two I know for a fact have been into to skinny chicks, and I get kind...
Now my concern is, is there any way to tell a FA who's in it for the long run as opposed to a guy who is just horny? Because I've had partial encounters with a guy or two I know for a fact have been into to skinny chicks, and I get kind...
themannamedstacy asked: I just wanting to virtually shake your hand because I am also a guy who loves fat chicks
