June 2011
36 posts
Anonymous asked: Dan, what is the best way to get in touch with you? Thanks!
fuckyouandeverythingyouenjoy-de asked: Do you think full on body acceptance will happen some day? Or is the movement just going to take continuous baby steps while the dieting industry makes millions out of warping body images and breeding self loathing in people of all shapes and sizes?
anchors-aweigh-ladies asked: Hi! First of all, the article in the Voice was great. Secondly, this might be weird, but can we be friends? I live in NYC/Brooklyn and would like to at least have someone just to talk to who knows about this stuff. I am "chubby" I guess, in that weird gray area that you have talked about on your other blog. Lately I've been feeling like I'm not fat enough for people into...
Anonymous asked: I feel odd cause Im short, fat, long hair, really young (18), and I feel like no body will actually want to date me. I mean, I just barely got my first kiss like on may 1st, and i kinda mess around with him, not too extreme, but he already said he doesnt do long distance and wont date me, but come to see me. I know he wants to fuck, he said so... but I want a relationship... do i deserve a...
Anonymous asked: In your experience, how do FAs generally feel about going down on their fat chicks? I'm an attractive fat chick (5'7", 259) with good grooming and hygiene habits, but I've always been self-conscious about letting a guy get an up-close look at my lady bits -- what if he doesn't like what he sees? Do FAs really WANT to be down there? Thanks! -Jess
menwholovebigwomen-deactivated2 asked: Is it okay to tell your big girl that her size is one of the things you like about her? I have been dating a big girl for about three weeks now, and we don't ever talk about her size, or my size - but we do tell one another that we find each other attractive. I want to say something like, "I just love that belly of yours," but I don't want to make her feel self-concious or...
Anonymous asked: I am obviously a larger lady, but my issue is I started dating this wonderful man who is not bigger anyways we just became sexually active and I feel like all our postions are so boring... doggy, missionary, and me ontop.... do you know any other postions we can try... and that won't scare him haha but can work with a bigger woman?
Anonymous asked: Fat chicks are gross, man.
Anonymous asked: Could you post something other than your response to fat chicks saying "I think I'm ugly. Am I ugly? Could you find a nice boy who could tell me I'm pretty? *teehee* are youuu that boyyy?" I would like to believe that you have more thought-provoking and legitimate things to say other than placating some gals who just want validation. I'm not bitter, just feeling...
your-royal-thighness asked: Hi. I wanted to say thank you for your blog! A friend of mine showed it to me a couple of months ago and it totally blew my mind. I've felt beautiful and cute before, but I never thought that I could ever be sexy at my size. After I read most of it, I joined a dating site for BBW's and started talking to men a lot more, even if I knew they weren't an FA. It really showed me...
Anonymous asked: First of all, YOU EXIST! I swear, FAs were like Bigfoot to me. I was told they existed, but there was no proof. Thank you for being proof.
Now my concern is, is there any way to tell a FA who's in it for the long run as opposed to a guy who is just horny? Because I've had partial encounters with a guy or two I know for a fact have been into to skinny chicks, and I get kind...
Now my concern is, is there any way to tell a FA who's in it for the long run as opposed to a guy who is just horny? Because I've had partial encounters with a guy or two I know for a fact have been into to skinny chicks, and I get kind...
themannamedstacy asked: I just wanting to virtually shake your hand because I am also a guy who loves fat chicks
Anonymous asked: Any non-fantasy/freaky stuff website recommendations for a nice fat girl who wants to meet a nice boy?
Fat Brat: Being Fat and Lowering Your Standards. →
this isn’t really a reblog-blog but this was both relevant and astute:
fatbrat:
Let’s be real. I think we can all be real here for a minute, we’re friends right? Whether you’re newly fat or have been fat your whole life, ONE of these scenarios may apply to you:
1: You are hit on by guys or girls you aren’t attracted to, and you’re cool with that. Hey, it’s something.
2:…
cambridge-socks said: Not to a be a jerk (because your reply was insightful), but the question seems to be where to even begin trying to meet fat-friendly gentlemen. Where do guys who like fat chicks conglomerate? Do y’all have a bowling league or something?
sorry, my layout...
storiesofaginger asked: Where do I find guys who want to date a fat chick like me? And I mean date, not just bone. Because that's annoying.
a-little-bit-absurd asked: I'm a fat girl, and because of horrible experiences in highschool (gasp! bet you've never heard that one!) my self esteem/worth is in the toilet. I am in my early 20's but have still never had a bf. To be honest, i've never even been kissed. Would potential FA partners understand this, and accept being my first, well, anything? I have a recurring nightmare where any future love...
beatingheartbehindyou asked: Welcome to tubmlr. :)
I myself am a 215lb, (almost) 21 year old girl, and I have recently found a guy who loves my body. Even though he tells me, repeatedly, what he likes about my body, I still find it so hard to believe (trust me, there is a slew of past emotional/physical abuse/molestation in my past with men) and I was wondering if you might have any advice on how to just feel...
I myself am a 215lb, (almost) 21 year old girl, and I have recently found a guy who loves my body. Even though he tells me, repeatedly, what he likes about my body, I still find it so hard to believe (trust me, there is a slew of past emotional/physical abuse/molestation in my past with men) and I was wondering if you might have any advice on how to just feel...
popnfelix-deactivated20110706 asked: I am 5'1 and at my heaviest I was 196lbs. I have since then lost some weight and gotten down to 154lbs but it is still a ongoing thing. I have never been shy or awkward about my weight. One day I woke up and decided to lose the weight and I have been working on it ever since.
Recently a guy told me to stop working out so much cause he doesn't like skinny girls and the only...
Recently a guy told me to stop working out so much cause he doesn't like skinny girls and the only...
Anonymous asked: Do you think fat females who belong to social groups -like the gothic movement-or any other that freely opposes social rules that they find obtuse more likely to have a better outlook on their body?-Erika
Anonymous asked: what do you consider fat? like for 5'5
Anonymous asked: How did you met your girlfriend? It's been a long time that you are together? Was she confident about her body before she met you?
Anonymous asked: Do you have facebook? I absolutely loved your article in the Voice by the way.
megadelicious-deactivated201111 asked: duplicate yourself and send him my way please.
RT: “I like my girlfriend’s big ass, how she’s a foot shorter than me standing but a foot taller sitting down”
also: “Ghostface said it best: ‘Why is the sky blue, why is water wet, why did Judas rat to Romans while Jesus slept?” It was something I just started realizing when I first noticed girls.’”
(source: invertandcrush so fucking OTM)
theguyfromglasvegas asked: I'm the guy referred to earlier by Stupidtwilamb, and I just wanna say dude, that article you were in and what you said could not have come out any better, it's almost like words were being taken out of my head as I read it; you're like an American version of me. Love it! Also, thanks for the follow! Ali
Anonymous asked: what advice would you give to young, plus-sized girls who may feel insecure about their looks and size?
Anonymous asked: Do you ever see the larger women you date become more insecure around larger women that are attractive... more so than the thin women ?
Anonymous asked: How do you feel about stretch marks?
invertandcrush asked: There should be a reply to note button but I've noticed some tumblr themes sacrifice functional links at the altar of clean design.
alwaysfacingthesun asked: You inspire me as much as your girlfriend does to be comfortable in who I am and proud of who I am! I've passed on your article to my best friend that also likes big girls and he was says you are right on point about everything he loved it as much as I did! :] <3 Thank you.
Anonymous asked: Aloha. I'm a an average height, fat chick living in Canada, my boyfriend is an
average height, average weight American. We've been together for a little
while, and it's taken me a long time to let him in. I've confessed my weight to
him (254, aghhh). He says loved every curve I have (yay for Skype dates) and
can't wait to hold me, fuck me, touch...
average height, average weight American. We've been together for a little
while, and it's taken me a long time to let him in. I've confessed my weight to
him (254, aghhh). He says loved every curve I have (yay for Skype dates) and
can't wait to hold me, fuck me, touch...
alxdr asked: You and your girlfriend are very sexy. Does she have a tumblr/blog? (Or do you two have one together?)
Anonymous asked: You really represented guys who like fat chicks well! The guys from the show I found hard to listen to, total jerks, but you dealt with them so well. Well done, you did a great job, certainly made me (a fat chick) and my boyfriend very proud xxx
undrgrndpoet asked: dude! you have no idea the kind of awesome can of worms you opened for me after reading your article. as a total fat chick (been a member my whole life) I've spent my whole life and hating my body partly because I always believed that it would be impossible for a guy to find me remotely beautiful let alone be attractive to me! so now I know I was totally WRONG! there is definitely someone...
fatbrat-deactivated20121107 asked: What does your family have to say about you digging fat chicks? Have they accepted you having a larger girlfriend?
