November 2011
60 posts
Anonymous asked: What is your view on the website CURVAGE?
itsonlyspecialifyousayso asked: oh my god, are you and your girl both from toronto?!? Awesome!
Anonymous asked: I'm on FF (which I have to say, is much less terrible than I had imagined) and I post a decent amount of pictures of myself. I'm not into taking pictures where I'm not wearing clothes because as much as I truly respect those who do choose to, it's not my jam. I have, however taken full body pictures to make my body size clear. That being said, I get asked a lot why I don't...
Anonymous asked: What is your girlfriend's blog?
Anonymous asked: Neat blog, im glad somebody is finally bringing this out into the open. I'm a closet BBW lover. One time my dad found pictures of bigger girls and laughed hysterically. It hurt me and made me want to continue hiding this. What would you have done in that situation? I'm also very skinny and find it embarassing that i am attracted to bigger girls. Thanks for your time
Anonymous asked: Ok I just wanted to ask you (although you may not know since you own a dick and not a vagina) but what is with all of the fat girls hating on FAs? All this bullshit about weirdos, and creepers just because a guy digs your *insert fatty tissue here*. I am really having a hard time getting it. As a fat girl (5'10 and 347lbs) I really just can't wrap my mind around it. I mean who asks a...
Anonymous asked: I'm 28, 330lbs & a pretty girl. I get the "wow, you have such a beautiful face/eyes/smile/hair" compliments every day, but noticed they're mostly from women or older guys. I never get asked out by any guy that attracts me. I'm not picky- I'm just not meeting FA's that I'm into both physically & mentally. It seems like any of the guys I have dated...
proseburial asked: I love your girlfriend's blog! I always have a hell of a time finding clothes even if i'm not on the bigger end of the fat spectrum. Fatshion is now a permanent fixture on my bookmarks bar <3
forkliftfoot asked: do you think that fat girls should date only FAs? I only ask because I dated one, and he left me for a thin girl- I can only assume he wasn't ready to "come out", and it really upset me. He was the only guy who'd ever liked my body as opposed to just sort of dealing with it, and after that I'm just kind of confused and really weary with men. Should I date anyone who...
Anonymous asked: Will the guest bloggers be other dudes who like fat chicks, or fat chicks themselves? I'd LOVE to hear from more guys about they're experiences -- how they first realized they liked fat girls, how they "came out," etc... I'd like hearing from ladies too, I guess, but the dudes' perspective is endlessly fascinating to me.
SORRY I'VE BEEN BUSY/LAZY
Guest blogger week coming soon.
jaclynxhyde asked: you should post more pics of you and your gf. you two are ultimate cuteness. =] she's gorgeous, you're hot. its like too much sexy for me to handle!! lol
jaclynxhyde asked: okay, so, dude, i need you to go to youtube and search sum 41's song "we're all to blame" and watch the video because you'll get a huge kick out of the t-shirt the guitarist is wearing, i swear!!! lol no, this isn't spam. i actually screen capped it and posted about it on my blog, a little bit ago, and if you want, you can steal the crummy screen caps to show people....
Anonymous asked: You're the best and thank you for what you do! I do most of my dating online, at 5'6 and 265 with well distributed curves I'm too chubby for the reg guys and not big enough FA guys. What's the line between curvy and fat? How can I best describe myself online to attract FA's?
heartiboo asked: You and your girlfriend are thee cutest! x
doyourutmosttopleaseme asked: You and your girlfriend are adorable! And your blog puts a big ass smile on my face! Thankya Sir :) x
Anonymous asked: im fat my bf is small.. he does not like me fat, he says he loves me but he never calls me beautiful and is always pushing me to be skinnier, if it were for him i would never eat. i know its a problem.. i dont know how how to make it better :( sometimes he hurts me.. and when i tell him he disregards it..
Anonymous asked: UHHHH why would I want to see a picture of you kissing your gf? In my imaginary universe, you're single. And you have a wicked crush on me.
ruinat0r-deactivated20120917 asked: Why is your gf kissing another dude?
500 FOLLOWERS
SHIT. Thank you! Here’s a pic of my gf kissing some dude.
lost-lenore asked: im glad you're around, sir. i like the way you think.
Anonymous asked: Heya, I'm just wondering what your views are on Fat Chicks that have small/er boobs? is that a deal breaker? I always assumed that men that loved fat women loved them partly (mostly) for their massive jugs..
Anonymous asked: Have you ever seen those "Fat chicks, yes" T-shirts? We FA's should totally start wearing those.
Anonymous asked: Top three tumblrs your followers should follow?
nynakin-deactivated20120301 asked: this isn't a question. I just admire you so much. In my country (Italy) being fat it's the ultimate sin. Church always absolves mafiosi, but society don't want to understand fatties, and our problems and our lovers... I'm a "FFA" too, so I can see both sides of the argument.
In spite of everything I try to have fun, without neglecting my desideres and my...
In spite of everything I try to have fun, without neglecting my desideres and my...
Anonymous asked: Hi Dan.
My beautiful girl and I have happily lost our virginity together.
For the moment, we keep doing it missionary-style, which seems to work great for both of us. However, we tried woman-on-top a couple of times and we failed: as soon as we move a bit, I slip outside of her. She commented that it's probably fault of her size and she won't be able to do anything but...
My beautiful girl and I have happily lost our virginity together.
For the moment, we keep doing it missionary-style, which seems to work great for both of us. However, we tried woman-on-top a couple of times and we failed: as soon as we move a bit, I slip outside of her. She commented that it's probably fault of her size and she won't be able to do anything but...
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend isn't an FA, but he insists I am a total knock-out. Our sex life is incredible, and we are madly in love, but I keep second-guessing his proclamations of attraction. He says I carry my weight (all 300lbs. of it) in all the right spots (forgive me for scoffing at the very idea that so much weight can be held beautifully-- self-loathing, much?), and that my face is beautiful, but...
Anonymous asked: I'm a fat chick and I dated a guy for 10 months and one day after sex he said I looked like a beached whale. I don't have too many body issued but this is one of the names I used to be called when I was bullied at school and it brought that all back. Considering that he does like fat women I am wondering if somehow he thought that was some kind of compliment or if is he just a prat?
Anonymous asked: When is dan ex machina's next concert? By the way, I love your modern lovers shirt.
Live by it.
ronfancy:
I like your fat, I like your fat body parts, and I like you, OK?
Live by it.
“We must stop hyper-analyzing every component of fat acceptance and people with good intentions or we all risk coming off as self-righteous martyrs.”
-Bumsyisdone
Anonymous asked: How do you feel about the term BBW?
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Well, that is why I critiqued her in this post: I was afraid that the way she wrote it would start off another round of “fetishists are gross/scary!”. Since Kyla hasn’t responded to me personally, I dunno if she actually hasn’t thought out the difference between having a fetish/preference and respectfully expressing that fetish/preference, or if that was just an instance of horrible writing....
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“Yeah, why are all those “sycophants” being so hostile to you just for calling what they say bullshit? You’re being so polite.” I called it bullshit after the hostile reaction. Get the order right or get a job at Fox News.
pandorasboxofconfusion asked: Thanks muchly for following me back :) Only stumbled across your stuff a little while ago, but good to see you on tumblr!
molly-ren asked: So how do you feel about feederism?
Anonymous asked: You're a fucking douche.
Anonymous asked: This isn't a question, but the woman whose photo was used in that disgusting Ashley Madison ad (in a Jezebel article you linked recently) wrote a response to Jezebel. It's very articulate and awesome, and maybe something you'd also like to link to? The first Jez article did a good job of calling out the ad for being terrible, but this follow-up drives home the notion that, well, fat...
Anonymous asked: Do you have a blog about music?
R.I.P. Overweight Lover. I appreciate the first word not hindering your second word abilities.
Anonymous asked: I don't think you're pretentious, you're just awesome. Keep up the good work.
Anonymous asked: I am married to a guy who seems to think I am the most beautiful chick in the world. I, of course, can't wrap my brain around the concept. I don't think he specifically likes fat chicks. I think he just likes me. My question is, could it be possible that he actually finds me physically sexy and not just loves my personality and the body's part of the package? And the other question...
Anonymous asked: were you ever, per chance, a member of bbwchatzone, back in the day?
Anonymous asked: Thank you for answering my question about coming out. You know the post I'm talking about (the one you've referenced that i posted in August). Once I came out to my friend life has been so much better. Approaching girls that I find attractive has been so much easier. Thank you. Every guy who likes fat chicks should come out.
Anonymous asked: hot sex positions????
