October 2011
51 posts
dathremar asked: does it annoy you when people are like "why like fat chicks" like really... do i need a reason... then they come out with shit like "whatever floats your boat, but that sinks mine"
Anonymous asked: what do you think about hairy fat chicks? also, double/triple/quadruple chins?
makebelievenelly asked: Do you think there is a distinct difference between men who who have the urge to feed their significant others "feeders" and guys who just like fat girls?
Anonymous asked: October 28th, 1:46AM "I don’t understand why this entry’s anonymous. Give me a reason to believe you." I don't have a tumblr account and making one just to leave a comment seemed too much work (I'm lazy). Would you like to see my Facebook profile?
Anonymous asked: pre·ten·tious/priˈtenCHəs/Adjective: Attempting to impress by affecting greater importance, talent, culture, etc., than is actually possessed.
Anonymous asked: Are you pretentious because you're a hipster or a hipster because you're pretentious?
handsomebees-deactivated2012031 asked: Yo! so what's your opinion on the reality dating show BIG LOVE? I think it aired a year or two ago. If you've seen it of course.
Anonymous asked: Do you think that "coming out" as a FA is really necessary? its not really a sexual orientation it is just a preference; everyone has a "type", and surely most people will twig on what kind of girl you're into when they see you walking down the street/leaving the bar with one..
Anonymous asked: Hi, I did not take part to the contest because I'm not interested in porn, but I'm proud of my preference for fat girls. To be more precise, I'm insanely proud of my girlfriend for thousands of reasons, and the way she looks is definitely one of them. I just wrote to support your theory that the lack of entries does not necessarily correspond to a lack of proud FAs. To every...
makebelievenelly asked: I feel as though you would get people who want to become an actual friend from reading your blog has it happened? Have you had any friendships start through this outlet?
jaclynxhyde asked: yes, this probably seems like i'm being uber stalker or whatever, but i'm rather excited to have found this, so this is like, my 3rd(?) question in a row. my mom and i had an argument about men who like big women. she said they are basically losers who can't date normal women. (yes, horrible, i know, being that her daughter(me) is just over 400lbs). i presume you disagree, but what...
jaclynxhyde asked: also, what kinda music do you do? is there anywhere i can hear your music? (i'm a huge music buff, so anytime i get to talk about music, i do so. lol)
jaclynxhyde asked: i'm new to your blog,(LOVE IT,btw) and i don't know if this has been addressed, before, but i'm curious what's your opinion on the feeder/gainer scene in the bbw/fa community? i have some other questions, too, but i'll just spread them out over whenever i think of asking them =P lol
Anonymous asked: How do you suggest shaving for bigger girls? Getting into all the crevices? (I'm not being rude; I'm one of those girls myself)
Anonymous asked: Any advice for breaking the news to my skinny girlfriend I really like regardless?
Anonymous asked: Mind officially blown.
Anonymous asked: if you don't objectify fatties then what's with the porn contests?
Anonymous asked: Where are you? Who won the contest? Is everything ok?
sexysexyshannon asked: Will you marry me?
Anonymous asked: What a disappointment that the discussion around NCOD made bi guys who like fat chicks COMPLETELY invisible, along with trans guys who like fat chicks, and guys who like trans fat chicks. Whatever happened to intersectionality, y'all?
Anonymous asked: I just wanted to thank you for the blog. It's entertaining and informative. Keep it up. I'm sure there are a lot of men who try to hide their preferences for big girls. For the sake of big girls, I'm glad you take a tough, "ranger up" attitude and call them out for being wimps. I like that. Thank you again. ~ Austin
Anonymous asked: I would like to say, for the record, that I am both queer and fat. And without wishing to invalidate the experiences of other queers, my PERSONAL experience is that being fat has caused me more heartache, more discrimination, more bullying and more physical injury from others than being queer. Other fat queers so see this as an issue (case in point NOLOSE). But anyway, I would like to ask you,if...
Anonymous asked: Do you think being a hipster therefore slightly more distanced from mainstream society makes it easier to date fat chicks?
Anonymous asked: "I have enough fetishes and hobbies that I know the difference." Oooh like what?
Anonymous asked: I really appreciate that you respect fat women and you don't treat this like a fetish or a hobby but merely a preference.
mekng asked: Can I just say thank you for the way in which you handled the situation from last night? I'm still feeling a bit stung by it, but I really appreciate the calm you kept, your acknowledgement of how the other person felt, and your defense of fat women and the people who love us (and fuck us).
Ms. Malcontent: TODAY IS NATIONAL COMING-OUT DAY →
randomlancila:
askaguywholikesfatchicks:
Tumblrckjack: TODAY IS NATIONAL COMING-OUT DAY
harmonioussanctity:
askaguywholikesfatchicks:
harmonioussanctity:
askaguywholikesfatchicks:
In case you haven’t noticed, I date fat girls. Many of you will be annoyed…
I’m not reblogging this to humiliate a rightfully pissed-off queer person. I’m reblogging this to...
Anonymous asked: I'm so sorry about the bs you're getting about this coming out day. You meant no offence to other people and honestly, you don't need your own special day to live your life the way you want to and be who you are. Nobody can take that away from anyone else cause it's not condensed into some special day. They completely misunderstood your point and lacked the open mind to...
Anonymous asked: gonna break away from the controversy and ask you a random question that you've probably been asked tons of times on here, but i just found your tumblr and wanted to ask lol :) not that it matters but, are you a like a.. skinny guy that like bigger girls?
makebelievenelly asked: Do you ever wish you would have left your personal life personal?
Tumblrckjack: TODAY IS NATIONAL COMING-OUT DAY →
harmonioussanctity:
askaguywholikesfatchicks:
harmonioussanctity:
askaguywholikesfatchicks:
harmonioussanctity:
askaguywholikesfatchicks:
In case you haven’t noticed, I date fat girls. Many of you will be annoyed that I make a big deal of that. Lots of guys who love fat girls will not date them out of fear of what their family and friends will think. I put myself out there hoping...
Tumblrckjack: TODAY IS NATIONAL COMING-OUT DAY →
harmonioussanctity:
askaguywholikesfatchicks:
harmonioussanctity:
askaguywholikesfatchicks:
In case you haven’t noticed, I date fat girls. Many of you will be annoyed that I make a big deal of that. Lots of guys who love fat girls will not date them out of fear of what their family and friends will think. I put myself out there hoping others will too, and…
I don’t want to totally hijack...
splorf asked: Do you realize that when queer people come out, we are still taking on the risk of being subject to violence? Do you realize that some queer kids still get kicked out of their homes by their families? Do you realize that some queer people are still murdered just for being queer? Do you consider that equivalent to the shaming that fat admirers sometimes receive? Do you realize that many people find...
Anonymous asked: Do you realize why it is offensive to queer people when you -- speaking from a position of straight privilege -- suggest that it's unfair that National Coming Out Day excludes you? Do you realize that you are part of the class of people who created the NEED for NCOD? Do you realize that you are trying to take something that queer people created for ourselves, and appropriate it for straight...
Tumblrckjack: TODAY IS NATIONAL COMING-OUT DAY →
harmonioussanctity:
askaguywholikesfatchicks:
In case you haven’t noticed, I date fat girls. Many of you will be annoyed that I make a big deal of that. Lots of guys who love fat girls will not date them out of fear of what their family and friends will think. I put myself out there hoping others will too, and…
I don’t want to totally hijack this day from its intent.
You’re not doing a very...
Tumblrckjack: TODAY IS NATIONAL COMING-OUT DAY →
palilicium:
askaguywholikesfatchicks:
In case you haven’t noticed, I date fat girls. Many of you will be annoyed that I make a big deal of that. Lots of guys who love fat girls will not date them out of fear of what their family and friends will think. I put myself out there hoping others will too, and…
but you are?
coming out day isn’t about who straight people date
also it is not about...
TODAY IS NATIONAL COMING-OUT DAY
In case you haven’t noticed, I date fat girls. Many of you will be annoyed that I make a big deal of that. Lots of guys who love fat girls will not date them out of fear of what their family and friends will think. I put myself out there hoping others will too, and eventually normalize the preference to the mainstream. Reblogging this is cool, but copy this status to Facebook if you have the...
getarealfuckingproblem asked: I just moved to NYC + I feel like the fattest white girl in Brooklyn. I don't even know where to start meeting guys here. I've read the FA articles, but they don't offer much in the way of where to get started finding non self-loathing dudes who like pretty, fat girls. In fact, the articles are all so intent to talk about 300+ pound girls it makes me worry that I'm not fat...
fogcityemu asked: Will we get to see the contest submissions?
THANK YOU
For your submissions to the PRIDE4PORN contest. I would’ve liked to see more, but I’ve also realized there were a lot of problems with the contest to begin with. Roxxie and I are currently mulling on the winner. Special note, particularly to female readers: I apologize if the contest offended you or betrayed your ideals for this blog. I wanted to see if porn would be a big enough...
makebelievenelly asked: Do you consider meeting women off of the Internet awkward? And do you think it is more difficult or just as easy as conventional meeting and dating fat girls?
Anonymous asked: I met this guy online who is an FA and has known for a while, but hasn't told anyone like his friends or family. And we've been talking for a while now and im starting to like him, and he wants to meet. He's willing to travel about 5 1/2-6hrs to meet me but not tell anyone why hes coming here. But i don't want to be anyone's secret, should i encourage him(because hes...
ariellemrogers-deactivated20111 asked: I am a proud plus size woman. I'm a singer and honestly need my body structure to produce my sound . . . which again I am rather proud of. The thing that bother me is when people tell me I need to lose weight, but what they don't realize is I am a big boned girl. If I were to loose more than 50 pounds, people would think I'm sick and I would look super awkward. I work my curves in...
Anonymous asked: I'm 16. I really don't know how I can come out and say I like fat chicks. I've been forced by society to date small girls (100-150) while still enduring some torment for the 150lbsers. What can I do?
TWO MORE DAYS OF THE PRIDE4PORN CONTEST
Two days left to enter my ridiculous contest. If your friends or folks know you like fat girls, and you’ve got photo or video proof, send it in to askaguywholikesfatchicks at gmail dot com with PRIDE4PORN in the subject line. The best entry by Oct. 9 wins free porn: a free month-long membership to the highly jiggly FoxyRoxxie.com. I’m probably never doing a contest like this again, so...
makebelievenelly asked: Have any thin girls felt like they would be the one to change your view on your type?
Anonymous asked: From your own experiences do you think it is easier to be the FA or harder for your significant other? Dealing with social stigmas and such.
Anonymous asked: Have you ever dated an ethnic girl?
