I’m really sick of being reduced to the public perception of my physical preference. There’s a huge range of things I find attractive mentally and physically in partners. There’s more than one kind of beauty. You don’t have to look like your friend to be attractive, and plenty of people might not find her attractive at all. Most of the girls I know who think they look “lumpy” or unattractive are fucking hot, and it doesn’t matter what I think anyway. I’m happy to help, but you shouldn’t base your self-worth on what others find attractive.