roadtothinland asked: Haha I know what you mean. But honestly I just wanna be healthy, fat or thin. So since Im on the fat side, might as well embrace it :)
Way to be dood.
roadtothinland asked: LOVE this blog.
That means a lot considering the name of yours!
THE POINT IS I GOT THE WORDS “JIGGLING UNREPENTANTLY” INTO SPIN
I reviewed the new Gossip album for SPIN. It’s their best.
Anonymous asked: Not an ask. Just wanted to say: Dan, you are awesome and damn hot. I love your blog (and articles.. etc) and hope it's always around in one form or another. As a proud fat chick myself with (imho) one of the hottest bf under the sun, I just want to let all you wonderful fat girls know you can have whatever you want, and anyone who ever tells you otherwise can fuck right off. There is something and someone for everyone out there, just be yourself and it will happen. That goes for everyone. <3
SWAG
Anonymous asked: hi, i'm a bisexual girl who is currently happily dating a gorgeous fat girl. there's one problem though. i can tell that she's kind of insecure about her size. it's like she doesn't believe me when i say she's insanely hot. sometimes i think it has something to do with the fact that i'm rather skinny and have had eating disorder issues in the past (which i've discussed with her). how do i convince her that i think she's beautiful?
Take your pick:
1. More discussion
2. More (body) love
3. More time
4. All of the above
The more you guys communicate and trade physical affections should at least improve things, regardless of how much or how slowly.
The other technique I usually bring up—though it doesn’t work for everyone—is to show her similar bodies that you think are hot, either in porn or on Tumblr. Do that if you think it would help for her to know she’s the norm for your predilections rather than just someone you’re being incredibly nice to. Adipositivity’s a great place to start, and they’re fresh off their victory over the dickholes at Tosh.0.
Anonymous asked: I've never been treated as a second or discriminated against, I feel more like I'm the one that judges myself worse. Being a fashion student is kind of weird when you're fat. Working around models and other fashion students who are also quite tall and thin. But that doesn't matter what I guess I'm here to say is that I don't get treated differently and I guess it's because I put on a confident girl personality or I just act like I'm not fat. But it's something I struggle with daily.
You’re clearly doing the right thing. Not everyone can put on that kind of face, but if you act like you’re in control and not to be messed with, people are less likely to mess with you. The weak pick on those who they perceive to be weaker.
Anonymous asked: Okay. So two things. 1. I'm 5'6" and 240lbs, not that it matters, & I generally think I'm pretty, & don't have a huge confidence issue, but I think my face looks bloated all the time & takes away from my facial beauty. Do fatter faces bother you? 2. More importantly, my tits are huge. Like, literal-watermelons-under-my-shirt huge, & when I'm getting it on, laying on my back, they flop out to the side. I'm really self conscious about it-how do guys feel? Any suggestions? ( . Y . )
I’m pretty on the record as loving fat faces. I think most FAs don’t mind them at least, though you have the occasional dude who really likes how a girl with a thin face just billows out all over below the neck.
I have never in my life heard of a dude who would intentionally sleep with a 240 lb. girl and complain about watermelons-under-shirt-sized tits. If you personally are self-conscious about them when you lay on your back, smush ‘em together and make some astronomical cleavage. But no one’s gonna lose their hard-on if you let ‘em flop to the side. Hell, I just got one.
Anonymous asked: So... I'm the anon that asked the question about my husband liking my belly fat. It seems that I missed your first response to it but I'm not overly butthurt about it. Maybe I would be if I saw it, I don't really know. All I know is, I asked you a question in the hopes that you would be honest. I came to you for advice, not hand holding, and I feel like I got what I asked for. I appreciate this blog and the fact that you answered my question in general. :) Thank you! Also, always be yourself!
The first response was just “He’s your fucking husband and he loves your fucking fat so hand it over.” It wasn’t advice; more of a “go get ‘em tiger” thing. Now I feel like a pussy for deleting it. I’m way too insecure lately to boss this blog properly.
Anonymous asked: Do you think it makes your girlfriend insecure to hear that you favor black or Latina women? There's nothing wrong with that at all (obviously, half Mexican/half white girl here) but do you think it's at all akin to a guy publicly saying "I prefer thin women" when he's got a fat girlfriend? (For the record, since this IS tumblr, this is in no way me attacking your character. I'm just curious because I don't think it is the same and can't decide why.)
Let me clarify that I didn’t “prefer” or “favor” anything in that post from ages ago. There’s a ton of stuff that I like. Way too much to fall into one type. That doesn’t mean I’ll just go for anyone, it just means there are a lot of different attributes that catch my fancy, and some of them even contradict others. I certainly can’t be every single desirable size, shape and color and I wouldn’t expect anyone I date to be either.
